Trauma and Neurodivergent Coach

Why do people in War zones don't "just" leave?

It’s more complex than it looks from the outside.

In wars, people don’t divide neatly into “those who flee” and “those who stay.”

Many are unable to leave (involuntary immobility), while others choose to stay despite danger (voluntary immobility).

Often it’s a mix of the two. Below is a structured, critical take that tries to be exhaustive.

1) Hard constraints: people literally can’t get out

2) The cost calculus: fleeing is expensive and risky

3) Information, psychology, and timing

4) Security logic that favors staying

5) Social, cultural, and political reasons

6) Law, coercion, and politics

7) Livelihood and animals


Applied to Gaza (2023–2025), briefly


A simple framework to read these decisions

What actually helps (evidence-informed)

Bottom line: staying is rarely just “stubbornness.” It’s usually a constrained, rational response to a thicket of barriers, dangers, identities, and duties—and in places like Gaza, there often isn’t a real, safe exit at all. (OCHA Territorio Palestino Ocupado, CICR)